Friday, April 24, 2015

A Tribute to Camille on her Birthday (2015)


                                A Tribute to Camille on her birthday.

                               April 23, 1980-July 16, 1983

Debbie Cook was up visiting and came over to say howdy. She'd been visiting for a little while when she caught on that I was looking at the clock about every three minutes...she asked if I was having contractions and I had to admit...yes. But they'd been pretty steady ever since I'd lost the twin so I wasn't worried.  They were just getting a little closer but didn't seem to be too serious.  She wanted us to rush right into the hospital right then! I figured we still had nearly a month left so wasn't in a hurry. But she was insistant. Curt got showered and ready to go and then we headed out...stopping by way of Peach City for some fortification before heading to the hospital. 

When we got to the hospital and they went to check me I heard "We've got feet! Push em back in..."  Emergency C Section.  I don't know if I ever did thank Debbie for insisting that we go in.

When I came out of the anethesia and saw little Camille for the first time I said "That can't be my baby!" She had all this black hair...and she was so adorable. (Not that the other kids weren't adorable!)  Curt said "Yup she is ours and I think she's inheireted some of our Indian heritage!"  (both Curt's mom and mine claim some Cherokee blood)

Camille was such a character right from the start. She radiated life and happiness. She giggled a lot and had such a bubbly personality. When I was at town shopping, complete strangers would come up to talk baby talk to my little girl....and she'd try and talk back with them, even before she could say real words.  Where Katie was mild and quiet, Camille was loud and spunky.  She demanded attention! But in a happy way.  She was a joy and a handful at the same time.  She had tons of curiousity and questions.  She wanted to do everything right now... trying to walk at nine months...trying to do everything the "big kids" did. Trying to help in every way imaginable with some pretty disasterous results at times! She potty trained herself at 18 months because she loved her sister's new underwear and wanted to wear them instead of diapers. She went downstairs to her sisters room and put four pair on all at once...and then peed them.  I wasn't too happy and told her "You can't wear those panties until you can go potty in here" (pointing to the toilet). She looked up at me with tears in her eyes and I felt like some monster.  I put her diaper back on...she took it back off and climbed up on the toilet hanging on to the toilet paper holder so she didn't fall in.  She sat there until business was done then put the new underwear on...never to wear a diaper again.  It was the easiest potty training of any I did.


We were getting ready for a family hot dog roast. Jared wanted to go over to the park where they were having a ward party with races and games for the kids. He went out to beg his dad (who was working in the garden) one more time to go over to the park. Camille followed him out and was pushing a folding chair over to the fire pit...where there were only coals.  She climbed up into the folding chair...which promptly folded over and dumped her into the coals...which instantly burst into flames...causing Curtis to drop everything and run like crazy to see what was going on.  He burnt his hands pretty bad pulling her out. His dad came up and they took her into the hospital where she was life flighted down to Salt Lake. She died enroute.  It was so hard to loose this precious little girl.  One of the harder challenges I had in life.